Monday, January 3, 2011

loving well in 2011

Happy 2011!

I've made my share of new year's resolutions. Lose 10 pounds. Run a 1/2 marathon. Move to Kansas.

But, the resolution I'm going to work really, really hard on is loving well.

2010 was a year of endings & beginnings. Maybe it was because our lives were in a constant state of transition or maybe it was because I was hormonal & sleep-deprived for most of the year.

Whatever the reason, I spent too much time this year feeling anxious. And I did my fair share of complaining. And feeling resentful. Even angry.

I was too hard on myself. I was short with my husband. I said things I didn't mean. I neglected relationships. I intentionally tried to hurt people I love.

But, it is a new year.

And I want to do better this year.

I want to love myself better. Be kinder. Gentler. More patient with myself.

I want to love my husband better. Be kinder. Gentler. More patient.

I want to love my dog better. Be kinder. Gentler. More patient.

I want to love my friends & family well. Life is too short to be angry, hold grudges, & feel sorry for myself.

So, here's to 2011. May it be a year of loving well.


5 comments:

Lauren said...

Go, friend, go! This is a wonderful resolution. Thanks for sharing.

Towanda said...

All of us can always do better at loving well. Remember there is grace sufficient for those times when we don't.

(PS: Boo to moving to Kansas...)

ivcolga said...

I hope you don't mind if I also make "loving well in 2011" a resolution. It's a good one for all of us...
One of the things I love is YOU.

Anonymous said...

I agree with all you "loving well" is such a good resolution for all of us, but go Tiffany for all of your resolutions.
Love,
Patty

jakeandcamigrace said...

Very well said...and couldn't agree more. Here's to loving better in 2011! <3 you sister